Friday, 21 October 2016

Tyga goes of begging Kylie for a $400k new car just so he can keep up with an ex

Tyga Jealous Of Blac Chyna: He’s Pleading With
Kylie Jenner To Buy Him A New Car omg

Turns out the roles have been changed in the relationship of Kylie and Tyga as Kylie now play the role as the one with the pants and Tyga the one with the skirt.

Well words on the streets says that blac chyna robs recent baby mama/fiance got herself $400,000 rolls Royce wraith and Tyga can't deal with that and so he off to his "mama" kylie begging her for a new car. And here I was thinking that it'd go the other way around. From the looks of things Tyga isn't the man with the pants as he is so jealous of chyna and tries so hard to keep up with her that he goes on begging, apparently his recent car -Bentley isn't so good of a car for him anymore. 

"It all goes from keeping up with the kardashians to keeping up with blac chyna by Tyga"

Lol

Well I feel if Tyga feels the need to by pass his ex he should do it on his own account not on Kylie's.

" time to time Tyga has been hinting on Kylie about the new car chyna just bought, he's trying so hard to compete with China but the sad fact also is that he needs Kylie's money to do that.  He hinted on Kylie that while he still liked his car of which Kylie alsio bought for him he'd prefer to have the one of chyna's as well. He's trying to sweet talk Kylie into going too the dealer and taking a test drive with the car. We all know that Kylie's got a soft spot for him and all he had to do is bat his lashes and shed do it for him so honestly I won't be surprised if he gets the $400k car by next week" says a source exclusively.

I feel Tyga is pushing boundaries with kaylie and taking good advantage of her I only hope this time she stands her ground and refused to be used, if Tyga feels the need to show of to his ex he should take the money right down from his account and not Kylie's. I guess the new deal would be "keeping up with blac chyna.


Image from craig Barritt/getty images and instagram. Of Kylie and Tyga and black chyna

Thursday, 6 October 2016

SHADES - ABUSED

I'd like to share this story with you reader. This girl was willing to share her story with the me and I thought I'd share it with you all.

- Based on a true life story

I'm...18 years old, they say kids act up according to there past. Well, what do you call a girl with a dead mother and a father she doesn't remember the face of.
   Telling this story I'm not sad, I'm not pissed, at this point I feel nothing at all and I hope it stays that way.

    My mom had me out of wedlock, form the words of others I was told that she wanted to have a kid so badly,  and I was also told that my dad wanted a boy and he was disappointed I was not.
Let it be known that my father was living from hand to mouth in a very bad way so I was mostly my mom's responsibility. Remember that as of now I don't remember my father's face so the memory is very faint.
   I visited my dad once or twice in 3 months and every time he'd always had a fight with my mom, giving her a black eye or more.  She'd cry and sometimes try to hide her feelings from me. 
    I was scared of my father,  didn't want to ever see him, he lost his significance, I didn't see him In my perfect picture.
     One day he came home late, drunk, and for some reason angry, he got into a fight with my mom and soon she was screaming and bleeding,  neighbors gathered trying to knock the door down.  I was young weak and helpless but despite my age I ran into the kitchen and reached for the sharpest knife I could find, I was shaken with fear but it didn't stop me from running to my mom and handing her the knife.  I could see the shock in both my parents eyes and I must say I was shocked too. Finally the neighbors had broken in and too my mom to the clinic and the next day we left and I didn't see him again...

    I went to lagos to continue my studies, my mom's sister took very good care of me and I was ever grateful that for that.  A few years later my mom fell sick and then she died, I was 6 and a half.  That was the fist time I was seeing my father since that night.  Nothing had changed, I didn't feel anything, honestly I thought he should be there, that he didn't deserve to be there.

    It took me years to get over my mom. Gradually I did thanks to my new mom.  Now I've grown and I see my family and I'm happy and all I wish was to delete my father from my picture, I'm happy,  really I am, but I really wished he wasn't part of my life.

    Growing up it made me feel that there was only one need for a man in this world -  procreation.  They were useless to me. It made me feel that I would get everything I'd want in this life without a man.  Getting married wasn't in my list. If I was ever going to get married it would be a bonus to my many achievements.  I didn't see the need for them. It was so bad that I didn't want to hear of them. I used the term -  useless when describing them.  I would be the head of my family and my child would come out bright. They call it daddy issues but I don't, I call it realization.

I intend on being this way. I might seem traumatized by my past but I'm not, it only made me stronger. And I'm thankful for that.

Saturday, 1 October 2016

FREEDOM - I AM

October 1 is the day we celebrate  the freedom from colonialism, but that's about the historical factor of it.  I believe too that today is the day where every Nigerian one way or another celebrates his or her own freedom.
     For a country that says freedom to..... I feel that we still walk in loose shackles.  We witness financial bondage, in the sense that we are not free from the masters of hunger and oppression , bondage by insecurity in the sense that we are not free from the masters  of fear, the bondage of colour, in the sense that we men has subjected ourselves to the colour of black and white and then the bondage that still holds us against association, we all seem like oil in a bowl of water.
  But today I'm independent because I have "choice".  I "choose" to stand to be for or against...
I am independent because I walk in a shackle that I let myself in and can be broken out of any time. 
I am independent because I can be heard. I can scream and it will echo
I am free because there is Democracy.... So I stand a chance
I am free because I can feel...  My emotions are not controlled by the higher masters

There are many things a man can say for himself why he is celebrating today.

But I am celebrating today  be cause...

          "I'm Nina Hart and I am free because I am who I CHOOSE TO BE"

Comment below on why you are celebrating today. With "I AM FREE BECAUSE...."

Let us know your freedom story...

Wednesday, 28 September 2016

SUCIDE- BEHIND THE DARK COTTONS

Dr NiH reader, thank you for viewing my blog and accessing my contents. Just a few hours ago I was surfing through Instagram and I saw this poetry competition with the theme : suicide - behind the dark cottons.
  This made me think for a while.  Why would a man willingly want to take his own life?

I see everyday people facing there own struggles, trying to live, trying to survive,  trying to patch the pieces of their lives together by all means.
     And then i read about how people who've been murdered in their beds,  on their way to work, in school and those who had lost their lives to natural disasters... And I wondered, if life could be traded would they not prefer a trade than a waste? . 
  I feel the act alone is selfish.  You taking your life regardless of the feelings of those who you'd be leaving behind, to grieve your demise, to miss you. You put people who you say you love and love you too through pain as a regard of your clouded judgments.

   And then again I ask myself.... How bad could it have gotten for them?

I watched a movie one time, I saw that the girl put a bullet through her head because she was being humiliated by a video which was uploaded on the Internet by her "friends".
       "Cyber bullying" has always being one of the major reasons why.... Scratch that..... "Bullying" had always been the major reason for suicide.  People playing pranks and making "jokes",  feeding off of the weak because they know that they would get away with it. 
   A huge percentage of teenagers feel that if they can't escape this hell on earth then they chose to not live In it anymore.  They've been pushed to their limits, above their tolerance level and they refuse to see the point of living with the world.  Now I might know a tiny bit of the big story but I am also trying to understand them.

   Not only youngsters are being bullied, I believe adults too.

A man,  married to a beautiful loving wife, and has beautiful kids and a happy home was found with ropes around his neck and his feet about three feet above the ground and people were forced to ask.... "what went wrong?".  He had a "perfect" life. Why did he end it?

   This man was bullied by frustration, depression and incompetence .  He could no longer do that which he had to do to sustain his family and the shame of this reality prompted this man to take his own life. 

We all have 1 to infinite reasons to want to end our problems by stopping our hearts but do we ever think of what would happen when we are gone?

Does the trouble go away?
Alas am I happy with myself?
Do I want to end my story with... " And so she took her own life"
What about the people that love me? Should I hurt them because I was hurt?
Should l let  my problems define me.

There are so many questions to ask yourself before you make that final decision.
Everyone has a choice to live but not all make that choice when it comes to death.

Do not let yourself be defined by what life presents to you....
"Situations" is a bully YOU SHOULD STANDARD UP To...
Life is a gift, and only you can decide on how to use that gift

"you are a symbol of what you choose to be and stand for, not how it is described by others "
                                                                            
                                                                                               _  Nina Hart

Tuesday, 27 September 2016

SHADES

Its all about letting yourself be heard.
     Everyone has got a story to tell, and a lesson to learn. Different sides and different shades, some darker than others, some better , good bad or ugly. Everyone thinks its OK to keep your feelings hidden, to suck it up and smile like everything is ok and nothing's wrong.
  But I believe that every one in life wears the "PERFECT" mask, just how well it suits them. They try to wear the "perfect" person, without sorrow, with out problems, without concern. They try to be the "perfect" example, but we all know that eventually when the the night falls, they face their demons struggling with that inner personality they try so hard to hide. Fighting a war you are obviously loosing.
Share ur anonymous stories with the world and get your advice , help and comfort no one has to know its you...
Nothing is ever what it seem....and stories are deeper than words...
I'm Nina Hart ..
Telling Your Story